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Jillian, but you can call me Queen of Cake and Crescent Rolls - 2003-11-26 02:42:41
Aim- I was just having this conversation with Will at work earlier. What is in fact normal? Now adays I feel like if people DON'T have some issues, they aren't normal. hehehehe. And I think part of being involved with someone and figuring out what is normal has to do with oyur own personal boundries and what you are able to handle. Some people's threshhold of normal is higher than others. -Jill
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Jillian, but you can call me Queen of Cake and Crescent Rolls - 2003-11-26 02:42:50
Aim- I was just having this conversation with Will at work earlier. What is in fact normal? Now adays I feel like if people DON'T have some issues, they aren't normal. hehehehe. And I think part of being involved with someone and figuring out what is normal has to do with oyur own personal boundries and what you are able to handle. Some people's threshhold of normal is higher than others. -Jill
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Brian#1 - 2003-11-26 10:16:20
okay, first: glad you're not preggers. i can't afford to buy presents for one more damn kid just yet! :-P second: how is it, exactly, that you COULD be pregnant? is someone not practicing safe sex? or would it have been a matter of that 1% chance thing with condoms? third: scarier still, if you are worried about "catching pregnant" then you should be even more worried about "catching HIV"...scary thought for the day! shivers...but i was just reading how the AIDS epidemic is worse than ever, with 8,000 people dying EACH DAY... fourth: nothing wrong with issues for depression...in fact, i can say that i count several people among my best friends who are treated for depression...so, i'm sure Ben and i will get along famously! LOL...well, as long as he's a Leo or Aquarius, LOL. not a pisces, tho...shivers...so, don't fret...just don't MOVE IN with him any time soon, OKAY??? and HI JILL!
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BrianO - 2003-11-27 10:45:18
I second Brian#1's point. Have him wear condom! There's no reason not to. (And no, 'it doesn't feel right' is not a good excuse.) Congratulations on not being a mommy by the way.

And I also agree with the Queen of Cake and Crescent Rolls, we're all screwed up in some way. You just have to find out if they're particular screwed-up-ness is worth putting up with. Just don't make excuses because of it, whether its depression or not, if he acts like a jerk, he's jerk.

Hope you have a happy Thanksgiving.
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BrianO - 2003-11-27 23:08:46
Can I just say, I wish this thing had an edit button? That last message was about the most screwed up post grammatically and spelling-wise that I've ever written. I apologize profusely.
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Kell - 2003-11-28 02:39:29
(Let me know if you want to learn the trick for putting a condom on a man without using your hands. ;-)
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Rose - 2003-12-01 10:37:21
Kell-- I don't know about Aimee, but I'd sure like to learn that trick ;) Aimee-- considering the strength you've had to draw on to leave and deal with the aftermath of leaving the Louse, I think it's totally understandable that sometimes you'd want to be taken care of. In a good relationship there's a balance of that, each taking care of the other. *Nobody* wants to be "the strong one" all the time!
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